Regional Synod of Canada - Reformed Church in America

Pioneer Christian Monthly

Date - Nov/82

Contributor - Mrs. Sandi Hekhuis

Title - Advent/ Loneliness

Topic - Advent

"I have come in order that they might have life in all its fullness." John 10:10

"When Lord did we ever see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and gave you drink? When did we ever see you a stranger and welcome you in our homes or naked and clothed you? When did we ever see you sick or in prison and visit you? Whenever you did this for one of the least important of these brothers of mine you did it for me!" Matthew 25:35 - 40

How strange you may think that Advent and loneliness are dual themes for this Pioneer edition. Joyous scenes come to mind as we contemplate the approach of Christmas: tinkling bells, singing choirs, excited children, delicious smells from the kitchen and gaily coloured gifts to name just a few.

However, for many people events in their individual lives and/or in the world in general have dimmed the joy and radiance of the season. This is because preparation for Christmas have not included preparing for Him. Advent means a coming, especially an important coming. When activities include everything but preparing for Christ's coming, it is not surprising that an absence of joy may occur.

For some, remembering past Christmases vs the present one brings loneliness. We ourselves will greatly miss my father who has always been a blessed and vital participant in our celebrations, but as Christians, we should enjoy the memories of past Christmases without dwelling on what is absent today, for the Christ of Christmas is the same yesterday, today and forever. Praise the Lord! He has also promised never to leave us nor forsake us. We know that He not only came once, but is coming again. What better time for Christ to return than while we are thinking in a special way of His first earthly appearance.

While we have these marvelous promises, we also know that there are people who need a special touch of Christ-like love to make their holiday happier. Look for these people, reach out to them, and do not forget them when Christmas is over. Show them that life in Christ is truly the joyful and abundant way to live.

Last year we invited a bachelor and only child who resides in a convalescent home for Christmas dinner. His pleasant ways added much to our joy, and we in turn brought joy to him. On Christmas Eve, we received a very special blessing. A family that had been living near our church, but had moved to Alberta, phoned to wish us a merry Christmas. Our church had helped this family which included two small boys, one of whom was severely handicapped mentally and physically. They wanted to thank us for what we had done for them. They also reported happily that the husband had found work, they were reading the Bible they'd been given before they left, and they were starting to go to church.

Do two important things for yourself this Advent season. Take time to give of yourself to others and take time to give Christ the pre-eminence He should have. When you see beautiful coloured lights, remember that He is the light of the world and He has shed His light abroad in our hearts. As you bake your specialties, share them with others, and remember Christ has said that He is the bread of life. When you wrap your gifts, meditate about the One who is the giver of every good and perfect gift, and never stop thanking God for His greatest of all gifts, without Whom there would be no celebration. Also why not make a special gift for Christ's work during this season?

Advent is a wonderful time of year. Shall we endeavour to make it that, not only for ourselves, but for the lonely, discouraged, disappointed and handicapped as well? In doing so, we shall be doubly blessed, for a Christ-centred, sharing Advent gives way to a truly glorious Christmas Day.

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